When seeking Mr Right you need to be prepared, ask the right questions and know what to watch out for, so that you can make an informed decision. However, what constitutes the right questions?
Are you tired of wasting your time and heart on dead-end relationships?
Want to know if the one you are dating is good husband material?
Will he commit or are you dealing with a commitment-phobic?
How can you spot unhealthy personality traits?
Will he respect you and treat you right?
How can you know if he will be a good parent?
Is he the one?
Is he Mr Right?
The odds for finding your Mr. Right on the first date you go on are very close to zero. You will have to wade your way through quite a few frogs before finding your prince.
Dating can be a long, heartbreakingly painful road to nowhere if you don’t approach every date you go on with a definite plan in mind.
You need to be prepared, ask the right questions and know what to watch out for, so that you can make an informed decision before your heart becomes too involved and you can’t think straight anymore.
Warning: be subtle, weave your questions into your everyday conversations.
Don’t back him into a corner and then expect honest answers from him!
Before falling head over heels in love with him, take a good, hard look at him and his life.
Will he commit?
If you are in a stage of your life where you want a meaningful connection and a real commitment flowing from that connection, you need to be able to recognize a partner that is ready for commitment as well.
Find out what you need to look at to figure out if he will commit or if he will have issues with commitment.
Will he be a good parent?
If your dream for your future includes having children or if you already have children of your own, you will want to know if you are dating a person who is capable of being a good parent.
Will he be a caring, present father as well as a partner for you?
Will he treat me well?
This is so, so important because none of us want to end up with a partner that breaks us down and make use unhappy. In order for you to figure out if he is going to treat you well, respect you, love you, help you grow, support you, be there for you … ask yourself some of the following questions in this section.
Does he have personality flaws?
We all know there are bad people out there: people who lie, cheat, steal or abuse. When dating you need to be able to recognize them and protect yourself from them. Work through this list to save yourself from a lot of future pain.
Don't be carried away too fast!!
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